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Magnesium – Natural Tranquiliser

March 4, 2024 By Sue

Magnesium (Mg).

It’s like “the wizard behind the curtain” because it’s everywhere and seems to be doing everything in your body.

And *most* of us don’t get enough of it!

National studies, in the UK reveal that almost 100% of adults are not meeting their RDA (recommended daily allowance) for magnesium.

Why do you need Magnesium?

Magnesium plays a crucial role in 600 enzymatic processes in your body and there’s a TON of research backing up magnesium’s potent health benefits.

An essential mineral regulating muscle and nerve function and supporting bone and DNA health.

You need magnesium for a healthy heartbeat, energy and neurotransmitter production, bone metabolism, sleep, relaxation, and so much more.

And yet, it is one of the most common nutrient deficiencies as we get older.

In a new study [PMID 36899275], researchers confirm that adequate magnesium intake will decrease brain shrinkage as we age and reduces the risk of dementia and cognitive disorders.

Magnesium is responsible for your body’s energy at a cellular level and if you have adequate levels of magnesium, your aging can be slowed down. Your body needs magnesium to produce energy in the form of ATP (2).

These are the Common Signs of Magnesium Deficiency

Unusual signs you may have Mg deficient - tongue quivering, tiredness, cramping, eye twitches, sleep problems or loss of appetite, PMS, irritability, anxiety, headaches, high blood pressure or nausea and vomiting.

Even though Mg deficiency is well-established in the literature, traditional medical doctors aren’t trained to screen or test for magnesium deficiencies.

Ref: Henderson et al (2002) National Diet and Nutrition Survey: adults aged 19 to 64yrs. The Stationery Office. London

Why Are We So Magnesium Deficient?

Modern soils have become severely depleted of magnesium, when compared to “Paleolithic societies where daily Mg intake was about 600 mg, significantly higher than today's [1].

Chronic stress also depletes magnesium levels, so does poor sleep, exercise, high caffeine intake, and sugary diets. 

Magnesium is also depleted by:

  • insulin resistance or metabolic syndrome i.e. issues with blood sugar.
  • processed and refined foods.
  • a lack of fruits and vegetables.
  • Overcooking and boiling of produce. 
  • Alcohol, soda, and caffeine.
  • Taking calcium supplements without magnesium in the correct ratio.
  • High dairy intake.
  • High salt intake.

How do you get more Magnesium?

Ideally you want to get your magnesium from a food-first approach. 

Foods rich in Mg include pumpkin seeds (168 mg in 2 tablespoons), almonds (80 mg in 23 almonds), spinach (80 mg in 1 cup cooked), and dark chocolate (50 mg in 1 ounce—make sure its 70% or higher for less sugar). 

However, only 30 to 40 percent of magnesium in plants is bioavailable because it comes bound to “anti-nutrients” like phytic acid that make it harder to absorb. 

Foods that are exceptionally high in magnesium.

When you consider the RDA is a guide to the very lowest amount required to prevent outright deficiency,  it means that hardly anyone is getting the optimal amounts of magnesium required for their body to function at its best.

And with magnesium being involved in so many reactions in our bodies, the painful truth is that virtually everyone is magnesium deficient!

Hormonal Issues and The Link to Magnesium Deficiency

Magnesium is an absolute essential for you to have healthy hormones that are in balance = less moodiness, less cramps, PMS sx and better sleep to name a few benefits!

Whether you're entering peri-menopause, dealing with a PMS type hormonal imbalance, or coming off contraceptives, the right levels of magnesium are needed to produce optimal amounts of hormones such as progesterone, oestrogen, and testosterone. 

PMS Relief (Premenstrual Syndrome):


Magnesium, combined with vitamin B6, proves particularly effective in managing mood-related PMS symptoms. Magnesium helps to regulate the neurotransmitters that affect your mood and emotional state.

Magnesium supplementation has been shown to help lessen bloating, sugar cravings, cramping, reducing anxiety and sleep disturbances all associated with PMS.

Chocolate is one of the most common foods women crave right before they start their periods, did you know chocolate is one of the highest food sources of magnesium.

Magnesium in chocolate

Insulin resistance & PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome):

Insulin resistance is a key feature of PCOS. High insulin is not just a symptom of PCOS—it is also a major driver of the condition. 

Women with PCOS are 19 times more likely to have a magnesium deficiency, according to a study in Gynaecology Endocrinology. 

Individuals with insulin resistance, metabolic syndrome or type 2 diabetes tend to be lacking magnesium. One theory is that chronic insulin reduces magnesium levels.

Magnesium is important to help glucose enter cells where it is used for energy. Part of its job, is regulating the function and transport of insulin, that acts as a key to open the cell doors to glucose. Without enough magnesium, glucose doesn’t enter the cells in sufficient amounts. This can cause fatigue and difficulties regulating blood sugar.  

Sufficient levels of magnesium can therefore improve insulin resistance and reduce your risk for developing type 2 diabetes.

By reducing blood sugar levels, normalising insulin, and curbing sugar cravings, magnesium serves as a natural ally in managing PCOS symptoms. Some even call magnesium "natural metformin," due to its role in managing insulin sensitivity.

Thyroid Support: 

Magnesium is a key nutrient for thyroid health. Its anti-inflammatory properties reduce autoimmune inflammation, which is common with thyroid issues.  

Mg converts the inactive thyroid hormone T4 into the active thyroid hormone T3. Without this conversion, cells do not receive the more potent form of thyroid hormone. Therefore, when magnesium levels are low, our thyroid is not able to function correctly.

And, finally, magnesium deficiency increases your risk of developing thyroid antibodies (3). 

Ensuring an adequate magnesium intake becomes essential for those looking to maintain a healthy thyroid.

Magnesium for Fatigue

Magnesium is essential for proper mitochondrial function, production of ATP which is really our energy molecule. Therefore, low levels of magnesium means that these functions are not running as efficiently as they should and can lead to exhaustion. 

Magnesium helps to convert the glucose in food into energy. So, getting enough magnesium can help keep energy levels stable and prevent the onset of tiredness.

It has been suggested that magnesium may play an important role in treating fatigue related health problems such as chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) and fibromyalgia syndrome (FMS). 

CFS is associated with lower red blood cell magnesium levels compared to controls, and approximately 40% of chronic fatigue patients are magnesium deficient. 

For energy production these processes also require malic acid, acetyl-l-carnitine, B vitamins, vitamin C, selenium and iodine.

Magnesium for Stress Management 

Stress activates the sympathetic nervous system, and prepares your body for intense physical activity, or to ‘fight or take flight’. Hormones such as cortisol are released, and as a result more magnesium is used.

Magnesium acts as a calming force on the nervous system, playing a essential role in regulating the stress control system—the HPA axis. 

A well-functioning HPA axis supports a balanced stress response. Multiple studies have also demonstrated improved stress response, anti-depressant and anti-anxiety effects of magnesium supplementation.

Other central nervous system disorders linked to magnesium deficiency include depression, migraine, epilepsy, Parkinson’s disease, brain injury and stroke.

Magnesium (Mg) as a Sleep Aid for Insomnia

Often referred to as nature's tranquiliser, magnesium emerges as a potent sleep aid as it has an overall calming and relaxing effect on the nervous system.

Magnesium may help to support GABA naturally, which is a calming neurotransmitter helping with good sleep.

Mg facilitates a restful night's sleep by balancing the sleep-wake cycle promoting the production of the sleep-inducing hormone, melatonin. Melatonin is produced in the pineal gland in response to darkness, and serotonin is converted to melatonin, with the help of magnesium.

Chronic sleep deprivation, exacerbated by magnesium depletion, can lead to a vicious cycle of worsening insomnia.

Anti-Aging Potential of Magnesium

Magnesium prevents telomere shortening, reduces oxidative stress, and enhances the production of glutathione.

Given the role of magnesium in a myriad of cellular processes, it should not be surprising that magnesium deficiency leads to accelerated ageing (R). Magnesium is needed to build, maintain, and repair DNA. 

Magnesium can reduce inflamm-aging (low-grade inflammation that increases during aging). Low levels of magnesium have been linked to chronic low-grade inflammation, which is one of the drivers of aging (R). 

Magnesium for Muscles & Sports Performance

Magnesium is involved in many different aspects of muscle usage. Does exercise deplete magnesium? Yes, the reason you need magnesium for athletic performance is because this mineral is a crucial factor in the production of ATP, which provides energy for the muscles.

Studies suggest that strenuous exercise increases the need for magnesium by up to 20 percent.

Severe magnesium depletion results in muscle weakness, dysfunction, cramping, and spasms.

exercise your metabolism

When do you need to supplement?

If you are prone to any of the signs mentioned above, then you might be deficient, especially if you have a lot of stress in your life, often feel tired or can’t sleep. 

There are times when supplementation is necessary, especially when the food sources available are limited.  You might be surprised at how much of a difference this mineral can make in your life.

When analysing the dietary intake of thousands of participants, researchers found that those consuming more than 550 mg of magnesium daily (way more than the RDA of about 300-400 mg) had a brain age that was one year younger by the time they reach 55 compared to those with a normal magnesium intake of about 350 mg daily.

Magnesium Supplements: Choosing One 

 One of the great things about the magnesium formulations available nowadays, is that they can come bound to other compounds to help direct the magnesium to specific places of the body.

This is important because most of the magnesium in your body is intracellular. 

 Magnesium is very chemically reactive and is usually attached to something else. 

 The substance magnesium is attached to in a supplement not only affects factors such as absorption and gut tolerability but provides additional physiological activity too. It’s important to consider this when selecting your magnesium supplement.  

 Combining magnesium with amino acids like glycine and taurine enhances its effectiveness.

 Here is a break down the different types of magnesium and for what conditions. 

MAGNESIUM CITRATE – is a magnesium combined with citric acid making it highly absorbable and inexpensive, “It is one of the most bioavailable forms of magnesium”.

 It has a gentle laxative effect and is often used in medications to treat constipation.

MAGNESIUM GLYCINATE - is one of the most bioavailable and absorbable forms of magnesium. It’s a magnesium combined with glycine an amino acid (which has antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties). 

Glycine has a calming effect due to its ability to increase the neurotransmitter GABA. 

When you take this form, not only do you get magnesium but you get additional effects from the glycine, and these are particularly relevant for supporting calm, relaxation and sleep. 

Glycine readily crosses the blood brain barrier and has a calming effect on the brain.

 A great go-to magnesium for relieving anxiety, reducing muscle pain, cardiovascular health and promoting sleep. some studies have shown that glycine supplementation in sleep-deprived study participants results in improved reaction times and reports of feeling more refreshed during the day.

 This form provides the additional benefits of glycine, supporting healthy insulin sensitivity and methylation. 

Magnesium Threonate - is magnesium combined with threonic acid (a vitamin C metabolite). This form of magnesium can be transported across fat membranes and is the best form for crossing the blood-brain barrier. 

Magnesium threonate is effective for brain and mental health conditions, like brain fog, mood disorders, depression, anxiety, headaches, migraines, and age-related memory decline.

The blood-brain barrier is a network of cells (8) and blood vessels designed to protect your brain from harmful substances. 

Magnesium Malate - is a combination of malic acid and magnesium. 

Malic acid is a vital component of enzymes that play a key role in ATP synthesis and energy production. 

Magnesium malate is highly absorbable and can be very beneficial for patients experiencing low energy and fatigue, such as fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. 

Magnesium Oxide - is magnesium that is bound to oxygen and is the most common form of magnesium sold in pharmacies, it is non-chelated and possesses a poor absorption rate. Only about 4% is absorbed. 

It is the form found in Milk of Magnesia and most often used for digestive issues like heartburn, indigestion, and constipation.

However, compared to other types, magnesium oxide is not absorbed by the body as well.

Magnesium Taurate - Enriched with the amino acid taurine, magnesium taurate may contribute to heart health. 

Animal studies indicate that magnesium taurate significantly reduces blood pressure, showcasing potential benefits in managing hypertension.

Understanding these nuanced advantages of each magnesium form may help you to choose a magnesium that meets your requirements - whether its for digestive discomfort, anxiety, insomnia, or heart health support.

HOW MUCH MAGNESIUM?

The recommended daily allowance is as follows:

Children: 80-150mg/day
Adolescents: 200-400 mg/day
Adults: 300-450 mg/day

Epsom Salt Baths

According to studies, magnesium and sulfate are both absorbed through the skin, which makes Epsom salt baths one of the easiest and most ideal ways to enjoy its health benefits. It may help with nutrient absorption, flush toxins, and help ease migraines.

They may be an effective way to improve relaxation and sleep quality, according to a recent study published in the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine.

This study was conducted by researchers from the China Medical University in Taichung, Taiwan, looked at 10 studies that included a total of 517 participants. The studies compared the effects of taking an epsom salt bath with a control intervention, such as a placebo bath, no bath, or another intervention.

It was found that taking an epsom salt bath was associated with significantly improved self-rated relaxation and sleep quality, sleep efficiency, and falling asleep.

The greatest benefits where when the bath was taken for 20-30 minutes before bedtime.

The researchers concluded that taking an epsom salt bath may be an effective way to improve relaxation and sleep quality in adults.

In summary

There are many different brands of magnesium available you may want to consult a qualified practitioner who will be able to advise you on what forms/brands to take.

Here are some brands to consider – if in South Africa you can access Metagenics via my online shop.

Metagenics high-grade magnesium supplements are available on this on-line portal in South Africa https://nourishedhealth.metagenics.co.za

 I have given you a link to get the Nutri advanced products in UK etc. 

 I also use a online website and I can send you a list if you would prefer that. Please send an email to [email protected]

Or you can order from the Nutri Advanced Magnesium range available in the UK / US at https://amzn.to/4bTyEF2

Naturopathic Women's Health Coach

Adding magnesium may be the start to addressing your fatigue, headaches, poor sleep or PMS, however you may need additional support to uncover what else is preventing you from feeling the best, most energetic version of yourself.

Please get in touch for more support - [email protected]

Filed Under: blog Tagged With: adrenal fatigue, anti-ageing, anti-inflammatory, calming, chronic fatigue, essential nutrient, exhaustion, fatigue, hormone balancing, insomnia, menopause, PCOS, peri-menopause, PMS, sleep support, Stress lowering, thyroid, Womans health

What Stage Are you In? Flat, Exhausted or Chronically Fatigued?

January 31, 2024 By Sue

A bit of back story here. When my son was born, I was studying to be a Naturopath at the same time, and with the added pressure of being a new mum, staying on top of my course, and throw in a new baby that didn't want to sleep - I ended up with hyperthyroidism, 'adrenal fatigue' or what is now referred to as adrenal dysfunction.

Fortunately, for me I had access and help from health experts through my course, to help me manage my exhaustion and get through those early years. I have been there and can relate to working women who are looking to regain and restore their energy levels.

If you’re feeling a tired or flat.....you don’t have the energy to do all those things you want to do – You’d planned to come up with new ideas for your business, be super productive ticking off your daily to-do-list, make changes to your eating habits, get fit, lose weight………… 

BUT what if you don't feel like it because you just don’t have the necessary energy or motivation to do all those things? You're just feeling flat, tired and unmotivated BUT everyone thinks you've got it together - You’re not alone, way too many women feel this way.

Yes, it's all very well that people say, ‘just do it’, or get organised and have a plan so you can get more sh*t done. 

Coffee’s not going to do it, it usually makes things worse, it’s a small energy boost that usually leads to an energy crash later and a serious knock-on effect to a poor nights sleep.

Fatigue can be a silent struggle that others may not fully understand.  

How others may see you:

  • From the outside, they might see someone who just appears to be lacking enthusiasm.
  • Or they might not notice anything wrong at all.
  • They don’t understand the constant battle you face and the impact it has on your daily life. 

What you’re feeling:

  • Inside, you’re fighting just to get through the day.
  • You arrive at work with brain fog and extreme exhaustion, even though you woke up a few hours ago.
  • By the end of the day, you’re too tired to cook, play with the kids, or do some simple self-care, even though you really need it.

What Stage Are you In? Flat, Exhausted or Chronically Fatigued?

Are you experiencing afternoon slumps, feeling tired all day, “burnt out,” “run down” or “worn out.” Apparently for no apparent reason!

The Role of Stress & Your Flagging Energy Levels.

Your tiny adrenal glands have many responsibilities, including responding to stress and the situations that cause it. They give us the energy and strength for “fight or flight” in crisis situations by pumping adrenaline and cortisol throughout the body to mobilise resources for this effort. It’s what helped keep us alive for millennia.

The most common health issues arising from long term stress. Having elevated cortisol has an effect on your blood sugar, insulin, blood pressure, immune function, gut health, sex hormones, sleep, mood, memory, cell growth and repair, digestion and thyroid function.

How To Recognise If Your Adrenals Have Become Dysregulated

More than 3-5 symptoms indicate that you are likely to have a problem with dysregulated adrenal function.

  • A feeling you’re constantly racing from one task to the next?
  • Feeling wired yet tired?
  • A second wind that keeps you up late?
  • Difficulty falling asleep or disrupted sleep?
  • A feeling of anxiety or nervousness—can’t stop worrying about 
things beyond your control?
  • A quickness to feel anger or rage?
  • Memory lapses or feeling distracted, especially under duress?
  • Sugar cravings (you need “a little something” after each meal, usually of the chocolate variety)?
  • Dreaded abdominal fat, or muffin top—not bloating?
  • Skin conditions such as eczema or thin skin?
  • Bone loss?
  • High blood pressure or rapid heartbeat?
  • High blood sugar?

There are two big problems in our modern world:

#1: Your body can’t detect the difference between life-threatening danger (tiger chasing you) versus when you feel mentally or emotionally stressed (running late), your body reacts exactly the same way – releasing cortisol.

#2: Today’s stress is continuous — perhaps relentless. Fight-or-flight situations are supposed to be short lived, giving your body the chance to recover from the negative effects of cortisol and adrenaline. The constant stress means your adrenal glands must work overtime to keep up.

When scientists measure stress, they find that stress is a function of both demands and control: the greater the demands on you and the lower your control over the outcomes, the higher your stress.

A challenging job, constantly juggling, worrying, taking care of children or elderly parents, skimpy sleep, eating poorly, over-or under-exercising, living in a troubled relationship — are all common examples of high-demand, low-control situations that many women are experiencing.

What is the downward spiral from being worn out, then burnout and finally adrenally fatigue? 

Stage 1: Wired and tired

This starts of when you feel wired most of the time, due to an extended release of adrenaline and cortisol in response to a high stress load. You may even think you’re handling everything just fine because it feels as if you’re getting so much done.

Further down the line, as your normal daily cortisol cycle continues to be disrupted by trying to manage more and more stress, you can become both wired and tired.

Stage 2: Stressed and tired

This is the phase you say you feel so wiped out that you can’t get out of bed in the morning, but when it’s time to go to sleep at night, you’re wide awake for hours.

Stage 3: Burnout

The final stage of chronic exhaustion, is when you feel tired all the time, with no energy at all. At this point, cortisol levels decline drastically as the natural rhythms between the brain and the adrenal glands become so disrupted that the adrenal glands stop functioning normally.

At this point, women feel truly exhausted and find it difficult to carry out even simple daily activities.

Emma, a 40 year old full-time working mom with two kids. She works a full day and has no help at home, she pretty much does everything herself!

On the weekends, between her kids’ extra-curricular sports and activities, she rarely has time to relax.  When she goes on holiday, they're more like sightseeing missions than an actual time to rest.

Initially, Emma felt like she could handle her busy, stressful life as she felt motivated and energised. But as time went by, the feeling of being able to handle things started to diminish.

Getting to sleep at night became more difficult as she often felt 'tired but wired'. She began waking up early in the morning, around 3-4am, and found herself unable to fall back asleep. Mornings became challenging as she often woke feeling unrested, even when she did sleep 8 or 9 hours.

She started to experience blood sugar crashes. She found that she needed to eat more frequently and often craved salt and sweets. She also noticed she was starting to gain weight around her abdomen even though she hadn’t done anything to change her diet. Exercise, which once helped her feel good, now made her feel exhausted.

As things started to deteriorate, life was no longer easy to manage. Work now easily overwhelmed her, and she had little energy for her family or friends.

Can you relate?

This is a common experience. What Emma has going on is Adrenal Fatigue or HPA axis dysfunction.

Stress-driven cortisol levels cause all sorts of issues over time, including:

  • suppressing the immune system
  • raising blood sugar
  • ruining sleep-wake cycles
  • wrecking digestion

Stress can be a killer because it is a driving factor in most major chronic diseases. It raises the rates of everything from unhealthy weight gain and hypothyroidism to early aging, heart disease and cancer.


If your goal is to kick burnout for good in 2024, then you need a holistic strategy.

A strategy that accounts for the myriad ways that stress impacts your mind AND your body.

Quitting your job won’t cut it.
One or two yoga classes a week won’t cut it either.


Chronic stress wreaks havoc on your hormones, your gut, and your nervous system. 


You need to establish your top stressors and deal with them, they’re usually not as obvious as you think.


You likely need to do a little fine-tuning of your diet. More foods with the nutrients you need. Less foods that irritate your gut and cause inflammation and wild blood sugar (read: energy & mood) swings.

On the other hand you probably need to make some shifts in your daily life. You need solid but simple routines that keep you grounded, make you more resilient to stress, and fuel you with energy- while not completely disrupting your life.

You may need to take stock of what’s draining your energy and be more discerning with your “Yes’s” and “No’s”.


You can do this. Not overnight, but I promise it’s possible!

Final Word

Stress and the effect it has on your adrenal issues, is the root of many hormone imbalance. There are many ways to support your adrenal health — from targeted supplements to key lifestyle changes.

If you suspect that you have adrenal issues, consider working with professional.

As you head in a healthier direction, you’ll feel stronger and more resilient, and your life will change for the better.



Filed Under: blog Tagged With: adrenalfatigue, anti-ageing, Balanced diet, burnout, cortisol, exhaustion, fatigue, hormone balancing, HPA dysregulation, stress hormones, wired but tired, Womans health

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